We've been in the lifestyle for a few years and have always made it a point to make sure that our playmates are also our friends. It's important to us that we be able to not only spend time with someone in the bedroom, but that we are equally comfortable with them out at dinner or in some other public setting. We are a committed, happy and loving couple that is incredibly secure within our relationship. Our escapades outside of our marriage are not for a lack of wonderful sex, but due to our desire to expand our experiences and live out our fantasies. She is a gorgeous big beautiful woman who turns heads whether she's at the grocery store in sweats or headed out for a night on the town. (If you're not into beautiful curves then you're missing one hell of a ride.) She is selectively BI...meaning that she really has to "click" with a lady in order for the physical fun to proceed. But when it clicks....hold on. Him? He's fun to be around, easy going and pretty damn handsome (so she tells me...lol) and straight. We're both professionals with very public jobs and at home so discretion is critical to us. With some people we meet there is immediate sexual chemistry both ways. You know, the kind where you want to forget the dinner you just ordered and just head to the parking lot? LOL Most, however, take a bit more time. So, if we ask to meet for a second time on neutral territory, please don't be offended. It means that we like you and are trying to determine just "how much." ;) All of our friends will tell you that we're wonderful friends to have, both in and out of the bedroom. We're caring, thoughtful, honest, fun to hang out with and we are very sexually attuned to our playmates. Aside from the obvious, we love the outdoors, the theater, movies, dancing, erotic art and just hanging out with good friends anywhere, but preferably near water. We occasionally travel to Vegas and are in the SF Bay Area regularly. [B][/B][SIZE 10][/SIZE]

My Ideal Person We're looking for couples, single ladies and VERY select single men with class who are looking for long term friends with some incredible benefits. While we prefer ladies with some extra padding (D+ cups are preferred), all are welcomed. Age and race are of no importance to us. What is important to us is men who can maintain an erection until the job is done. Sorry for the bluntness, gentlemen, but I love seeing my incredible wife satisfied and a half-limp tool after 5 minutes just doesn't get the job done. Got Cialis? Levitra? Viagra? Duct tape and pop-sicle sticks? Bring it along if it will help. We are a drama-free, drug-free and disease-free couple...please be the same.

We're selective in who we play with and it has nothing to do with how you look or the car you drive. Rather, it has to do with "WHO" you are. Do others think you're fun to be around? Do you know how to exercise discretion? Do you practice good hygiene? Are you as much into pleasing your partner as you are into being pleased? If the answers are yes, then by all means contact us.

(If you're a couple, PLEASE make sure this is what both of you want and that swinging isn't being used as a band-aid to fix problems you have at home.)

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Martini, Jason Mraz, Lyle Lovett, Jodie Messina,
Tim McGraw, Eagles, Stones, Big N Rich

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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