I am never sure what I am looking for, but always know it when I see it. I am over my divorce, feeling single, and feeling ready for fun and companionship. I actually like monogamy, and want to have friendship before I have sex. I am a good friend, sometimes even the heroic swoop in and save the day type. I am selective, civilized and educated, but I also like to have raucous fun, sometimes. I am a foodie, but I am trim and athletic. I am an intellectual but not a snob about it. I am also an old soul and I think, a good soul. My big claim to fame is I have traveled the world and lived abroad, but it's no big deal. I like people and am very easy-going. I am on this site to make new friends. I love people who love and enjoy life and are looking for that extra special part -- and actually pursue it.