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JayMMF 27 M
1  question
Spotting the fakes? New member advice please. - 5/11/2020

Morning all, <br><br> I recently joined this site and just like other apps / sites, I expected there to be fake profiles. However, on sign up I instantly received 14 messages that I cannot read without upgrading. <br><br> Now I am not against upgrading to 'GOLD' and would if I found this site helpful in my persuit of sexual kinks to try (MMF, DP, etc). However, ...

27 response(s), 27 votes
MidwestMolly51 56 F
3  questions
What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020

Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've never used sex toys before.

31 response(s), 15 votes
MidwestMolly51 56 F
3  questions
What is your favorite sex toy? - 5/10/2020

Im interested in experimenting with sex toys and was just curious which sex toy should I experiment with first. I've never used sex toys before.

1 response(s), 0 votes
platinum_gigolo 52 M
5  questions
How long would you wait to start meeting again after this mess? - 5/10/2020

I'm thinking two weeks after everything opens back up. I'm still working and with the public daily. I don't want to get tested cause I don't have any symptoms and don't want to waste a test that someone else might need. <br><br> But for real I'm ready to meet right now but I got to keep my horny sex drive in check and make sure this mess is under control. ...

31 response(s), 14 votes
JamesSpyBond 59 M
1  question
Why is it that nice guys finish last? - 5/9/2020

I am nice guy just looking to meet people, get to know them then have sex with him. When I do this, I never get any one to chat or hookup with me but if I act like a or a bad boy, I get replies out of my ears. I don't want to change who I am so any advice for this nice guy?

12 response(s), 10 votes
Oceana1969 57 F
4  questions
Recent friend activity - 5/9/2020

I liked somones picture long ago. Since then they constantly show up in my current friend activity. I am not friends with this person and i have blocked the profile to try to silence it from taking up my feed. This person is very active and kudos to them. But why am i seeing their content if we are not friends and i have blocked their profile?

20 response(s), 22 votes
help for standard members - 5/5/2020

Any tips for how standard members can make contact . messenger isn't working and neither are comments on pictures

43 response(s), 20 votes
daveisbad2 68 M
2  questions
caming and no show? - 5/5/2020

ok this is the deal. I am a straight guy and was on cam, fully clothed. People pop on and off .both and female, i don't always see who's watching since i am at work and cant always see the list of who is watching. usually when i notice someone and they are not what i am looking for i them off, mainly males. This one guy was on and he did'nt say any thing to warrant ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
HornyOldFucker76 67 M
4  questions
friend's profile - 5/4/2020

This weekend I discovered the BBW-Encounters profile of a friend/former coworker and his wife. I had no idea they were into swinging. Should I check out their profile details and send them a message, or should I pretend that I never saw it? I'd really like to fuck my friend's wife. What would you do?

21 response(s), 8 votes
silura99 40 F
2  questions
Cock sleeves - 5/1/2020

So, I just discovered that cock sleeves were a thing! Has anyone every used one? If so, how was it? Is it pleasurable for both partners?

16 response(s), 7 votes
Discretion is a must 🤫🤫🤫 - 4/30/2020

As I peruse over countless profiles, really fancying the photos as well as some of the videos, I can't help but notice a common theme amongst a lot of the profiles. Yes, I do eventually get to the reading portion of the profile. What I'm noticing, 🧐, is there are a lot of you whom desire discretion to be a must. Which in itself led me to thinking, 🤔, well is discretion not the ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
Discretion is a must 🤫🤫🤫 - 4/30/2020

As I peruse though countless profiles, really fancying the images as well as a few videos, and I finally make it to the reading portion. I can't help but notice a common theme, "discretion is a must" 🤫🤫🤫. To which I proceed to ponder 🤔, is discretion not the greatest part of valor? Which has absolutely nothing to do with this, I just like using it every time is see that ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
What does it mean? - 4/29/2020

What does it mean when a profile contains I&#39im in it? I know that profiles preceed with rm mean returning member, but is the prior a bot identifier? I see it so often, it came be a fluke. Also, why are there so many women in Taiwan flirting with me when I live in South Carolina? Green card? America's success at fighting the pandemic? Whst?

17 response(s), 10 votes
RubenesqueDebbie 68 F
1  question
cum - 4/24/2020

(SIZE) Being a reader i tend to read a lot of the erotica. , i have written a few myself__I am curious Do people really really love cum that much?______________so much so that they would lick it out of their partners pussies, cocks, bum hole??______________ Cmon help me understand

49 response(s), 28 votes
jackrback 75 M
1  question
Deja vu - 4/24/2020

I left BBW-Encounters about a year ago because the rules had been altered to make it very difficult to talk to people without an upgraded . I decided to give it another try and so far it is no better. I use to get free gold due to the number of views I received . Are there ways to get temporary upgrades now?

20 response(s), 16 votes
lyavu 50 F
37  questions
GOOD PUSSY OR GOOD DICK ? - 4/24/2020

What do we like ? I like sex so much. but i don't seem to attrart the right guy. I had a sexual partner for 5yrs he moved to philly for a job promotion. That was the best dick i ever had . Our connection and friendship was fun and amazing. After he left I opted to be celibate for a while . My friends setup the profile behind my back coz I didn't date or look for guys. I have an ...

15 response(s), 23 votes
What to write in a friend request... - 4/23/2020

I would like to get some advise on what to write when creating a friend request. I have written several and I typically keep them to a couple of sentences that either comment the person or note a compatibility, along with a request for friendship "if interested". I try to message only those that show a favorable compatibility rating and I am polite with my message. I do not add any ...

10 response(s), 9 votes
Naughtyfae 54 F
1  question
How To Get Laid By More than one Man At A Time. - 4/23/2020

I have a fantasy I would like to fulfill. Have two men suck one of my breasts each and then get pussy fucked by the back by at least two men. I only want the sex to be gentle. The situation would call for much discretion. How could I make it happen?

20 response(s), 16 votes
cuddlymouse 62 F
1  question
Friends List - 4/22/2020

How do I take someone OFF my friends list?

6 response(s), 6 votes
lowerslowerguy 75 M
3  questions
Is this normal for a woman when she cums? - 4/22/2020

Unusual question here... Let me explain... I love going down on a woman and watching her cum as I lick her. Had a strange situation. Twice now, a woman I was going down on, came so hard, she momentarily lost control of her bowels. Not a lot, just a little. Has this ever happened to any of you?

11 response(s), 11 votes
SuckMy8Plus 58 M
57  questions
Naked in Nature? - 4/21/2020

I Love being nude in the wilds of bushland. Do You? Why do you think it's So Exciting to walk around Naked under the trees?

7 response(s), 5 votes
Why? - 4/21/2020

Why is it ok for a woman to look for more than what they are getting at home but when a guy does he is a cheater?or no one will talk to him? A guy can be in a sexless Marriage also!

8 response(s), 6 votes
Oldmanaz2 65 M
3  questions
Contacting a member that has blocked you. - 4/19/2020

Weird question. Someone hotlisted me but it appears they have me blocked. I’m not sure if the hotlist was legit. Is there any way to contact a member through BBW-Encounters that has blocked you?

46 response(s), 24 votes
1theMisfits 44 F
1  question
Do Men like/care/dislike/love/turned on/turned off when I meet with them and tell them exactly what - 4/18/2020

I wonder if men like it when I tell them where in the room and how to fuck me? Example come closer to me take of your pants. Im going to get up on this counter top and then we can change positions in a few mins. A few mins later ok im ready turn me around bend me over the chair and fuck me slow but hard. So I changed positions like 6times. Does that effect performance? Turn on or turn on? Like ...

50 response(s), 31 votes
EfresherE 41 M
1  question
Hard time busting in a condom - 4/17/2020

So, I've been having a hard time cumming with a condom on. I can almost get there but just cant cross the finish line. After this point I go to semi hard then back to rock hard and back and forth. Whats wrong with me? I just want to CUM!

29 response(s), 13 votes
WyoCowboy7751 70 M
5  questions
What do you use ..... - 4/17/2020

When broadcast yourself on cam; what software do you use ? I have had an issue with Flash ! I open broadcast and cam picture shows up but in the meantime the cam icon does not show ! I have gone into Model Chat, find a model with one or no viewers, engage her in private chat, tell her what issue is and request that she open my cam, permission box will pop up which I grant, picture for her ...

4 response(s), 9 votes
Sexyslut4kink 42 F
1  question
IM Rules - 4/16/2020

How many do you need to have before you can use IM? I have over 200 but I cannot ever reply to them. IT here has not been helpful. Any ideas?

10 response(s), 13 votes
SarahLem80 40 F
4  questions
When do you stop using a condom - 4/15/2020

When you’re seeing a guy semi regularly, at what point do you stop using a condom? I’m keen to know experiences of others

47 response(s), 24 votes
nimrod17 57 M
16  questions
Seeking advice on message archiving - 4/15/2020

I wanted to go back to a contact I had made some time ago. When I tried to review the message, it was not displayed. The oldest message archived is about 3 weeks old. Is there a way, short of cutitng and pasting, to preserve message threads older than 3 weeks? If so, how do I find my older messages?

6 response(s), 9 votes
bigthrills7 59 M
4  questions
Feature returns! - 4/13/2020

A couple weeks back I asked about the feature on here when you move your cursor over a profile pic on your home page, the pop up window with the mini profile shows up and how and why that feature suddenly disappeared...I think it's been a few days now but that feature has returned! Anyone else notice it's back? Not sure of the reason, it was maybe a glitch or a bug that BBW-Encounters fixed or maybe ...

29 response(s), 21 votes